Hi there! I am super excited that you have joined me on this bible study journey. I believe there are about 20-25 ladies who are signed up and are following along. This is so awesome y’all. I look forward to hearing from you during the upcoming weeks.
Each week I want to take some time to recap what we’ve learned. I will post a short video and a blog post to share a little bit about what resonated with me during the week.
I went ahead and bought the Church of the Small Things book along with the study guide. You do not have to read the book, but I’ve enjoyed it so far. I read chapters 1-3 this week.
Throughout the week we talked about a couple of things. The first was about remaining in Jesus and what that means to us. I believe that remaining in Jesus goes along with trusting Him. When we remain in Jesus we bear fruit. We make a difference in the lives of those around us.
Many times when we are doing the small things we find ourselves frustrated, angry and just really fed up. Remaining in Jesus keeps us focused. It reminds us to be joyful in all things. This week tested me. I had a bad day where I let my frustrations ruin my day. I had a bad attitude and really had to fight hard to change it. I went back to reminding myself that the small things matter, but they will not make a difference if I am grumpy doing them.
In the book, Melanie Shankle talks about Abby Wambach. She played for the US Women’s National Soccer Team. Gatorade aired a commercial as a tribute to her and in the background she says these words, “Forget me. Forget my number, forget my name, forget I ever existed. Forget the medals won, the records broken, and the sacrifices made. I want to leave a legacy where the ball keeps rolling forward, where the next generation accomplishes things so great that I am no longer remembered.” (Church of the Small Things, page 43)
Wow. What humility. She had great success, but all she wanted was to make sure that those behind her accomplished great things as well.
But I agree with Melanie when she says that it’s hard to forget those that have come before us. When you have lived life to the fullest, taken advantage of every opportunity, enjoyed the small and the big things and “you have carpe diemed the heck out of who and what God has created you to be, you leave an incredible mark on the people around you and on those who will come long after you’re gone.” (Church of the Small Things, page 43)
We leave an incredible mark on those around us. And you know what? Sometimes it’s the small things that make the BIG difference.
I think about my dad and the legacy he left behind. You know, my dad was not perfect. But he did take advantage of every situation to show God’s love. Whether it was our waitress at a restaurant or the cashier at the store, he always took the opportunity to tell them God loved them.
He did those small things and those small things impacted the lives of many. It took me to a memory I have of him growing up that I shared in the video.
I hated storms as a kid. Especially the ones with loud thunder and crazy lightning. One night during a storm, I woke up in the middle of the night and cried out for my dad. To my surprise, he was already laying in the floor beside my bed and he let me know he was there. “Aqui estoy hija,” he said. (I am here my daughter)
That small thing that he did, to come lay on the floor by my bed, will be something I will never forget. All of the little, daily, mundane tasks we do each day, they all matter. We may go about our day thinking nobody notices, but they do. You are making an impact on everyone around you.
Nothing is wasted when we look at it through the lens of what God has for us. Everything we go through, everything we do is all part of who we are.
“For some, that may be a public role on a big stage, but for the vast majority of us, it’s about being faithful in the small stuff: going to the grocery store, volunteering in our kid’s classroom, befriending the new girl, coaching a Little League team, showing up for work every day, being kind to our neighbors.” (Church of the Small Things, Page 25)
What we do is important. Big or small, it matters to those around you and most of all it matters to God.
We go through life looking for that big moment. We pray and ask God to show us what His will is, what His purpose for our life is. We desperately need Him to show us that big thing that we are waiting for. But we forget that life isn’t made from just one thing. Life is in all things, every single moment of our life. That is where life is. The small things may seem insignificant at the moment, but they are making a big difference in the lives of those we encounter every single day.
“A life isn’t made from one thing, one big moment, or one huge success. It’s created moment by moment, often with pieces that don’t look like anything beautiful on their own but are the very fabric of who God meant for us to become as we pack lunches, raise kids, love our neighbors, and simply be who he created us to be; nothing more, nothing less.” (Church of the Small Things, page 15)
We finished up the week reading Ruth chapter one. Ruth and Naomi were embarking on a journey on their own. Naomi had lost her husband and sons. She told both of her daughter-in-laws to return home, but Ruth chose to stay with her. She took a risk and chose to be loyal to Naomi. She was faithful in one small moment. As we go throughout the study we will see how the story unfolds.
Sweet friend, you may be going through life, moment by moment wondering if what you do truly matters. I want to tell you that it absolutely does. I know you are probably tired, exhausted and worn out, but hang tight. God is using you right where you are. You may think your life is small, but the impact you make each day is big.
Live each day to the fullest. Choose to be faithful in all things because one day our kids, grandkids and great grandkids will be talking about all the little things we did for them and what a big difference it made in their life. Just like my dad coming to lay beside my bed is something I will forever remember, your kids will do the same.
Love hard. Offer grace. Enjoy every moment.
What resonated with you this week? How did this week impact your life? I would love to hear from you!